I hear the homophobes and their steady drumbeat and its getting on my nerves so I feel I have to say something about it. You can usually spot them the minute they start talking. They say something along the lines of, “I’m not prejudice against gays, but I just don’t like their lifestyle.” Its entirely possible that some of these people think it actually is a lifestyle , but somebody has to set them straight…no pun intended. Lifestyle implies a choice. Its something you choose to become a part of like lowrider culture, skiing, scrapbooking, hunting, spelunking (people who explore caves, I just like saying the word cuz it sounds dirty), or people who work out a lot. It’s a choice. Being gay isn’t a choice. I know that’s hard for some people to wrap their head around, but it’s the truth. Don’t believe me, let’s try a little test. If you are heterosexual (that means you like people from the opposite sex), how old were you when you chose to like the opposite sex? Was it in the sandbox, th...